I generally feel guilty about my own happiness if a friend tells me that (s)he’s depressed.

I frequently find myself not telling others about my ‘good luck’ so they won’t have to feel envious.

I hate having a fuss made over me

I tend to believe that people who look out for themselves first are selfish.

Many people depend on me for my advice and emotional support.

When someone I know well succeeds at something, I usually feel that I’ve lost out in comparison.

When I have to ask others for their help, I feel that I’m being bothersome.

I often compromise in situations to avoid conflict

I often question decisions I make.

I feel self-conscious when someone who “counts” compliments me.