“For nothing is hidden that will not be made manifest, nor is anything secret that will not be known and come to light.” Luke 8:17
For years I would eat uncontrollably–in secret. I’ve had a salad and chicken breast when I was around others, and when I would get home, could easily eat an entire bag of Oreo cookies. I was able to justify it because I would then work out for hours to burn it off.
In fact, I remember binge-eating while I coaching others to get healthy. No one knew my secret because I kept it from everyone. And as long as I was not accountable to anyone, I continued to wear the mask of ‘having it all together.’
If you also find yourself eating uncontrollably. you’ll want to grab a pen and paper.
According to the Mayo Clinic, it is described as:
- Eating unusually large amounts of food in a specific amount of time, such as over a 2 hour period
- Feeling that your eating behavior is out of control
- Eating even when you’re full or not hungry
- Eating rapidly during binge episodes
- Eating until you’re uncomfortably full
- Frequently eating alone or in secret
- Feeling depressed, disgusted, ashamed, guilty, or upset about your eating
- Frequently dieting, possibly without weight loss
Can you relate?
In the past, I would say yes to every one of these signs, I did them all. Today, I can say that, with the exception of the occasional, ‘snaccident,’ I’m free from binge-eating.
So how do you overcome it?
If you answered yes to some, if not all of the criteria above, now what?
Understand the Real Issues
1. Uncontrolled or binge-eating is an emotional issue
It’s not because you have an eating problem; it’s not because you’re lazy; it’s not because you lack self-control; it’s not because you need discipline. And the last thing you need to do is to try to make yourself stop eating by going on another diet. This usually results in more binge-eating
2. Emotional issues need spiritual healing
Understand that it is a spiritual issue that only God can fix. All physical hunger when taken in excess such as overeating, unhealthy sexual behaviors, addictions, etc. all result from our soul crying out to be satisfied; crying out for something more; something that only the love of God can fill.
3. Spiritual healing is an ongoing process and not a one-and-done
Somewhere in our lives, we’ve come to believe in instant miracles. Maybe it’s from the Bible stories we read as a kid or maybe it’s because of all the TV commercials promising quick-fixes.
Wherever these faulty beliefs came from, they are counter-productive to overcoming our strongholds like binge-eating. Accept this fact and stop running from program to program. God is not concerned with how much we weigh! He wants an uncompromising commitment to Him, This will take time!
You may need to spend some time and let these three truths sink in. Accepting these three truths alone can transform your life.
However, if you’re ready to go deeper, spend some time in prayer and answer the following questions.
Are you being honest with yourself?
Face the truth! One of the most powerful insights in our Weight Loss, God’s Way Program is that ‘God will only cover what you’re willing to uncover.’ It’s time to tell yourself the truth. Is your eating out of control? If so, are you really ready to do something about it? Are you ready to go deeper and uncover what’s at the root?
Have you shared your health journey with anyone else?
Vulnerability and accountability are crucial on this journey. The enemy’s plan is to divide and conquer. We are stronger when we can ‘bear each other’s burdens and support each other on this health journey.
Have you invited God into your journey?
While God knows the secrets of our heart already, we will not receive the fullness of his love and His help until we willingly open up to Him. He is patiently waiting for you and me to reveal our true self to Him. He tells us that it’s safe to take off the mask and be transparent before Him. He is calling us to come to Him so he can love us, heal us, and set us free.Beloved, you can overcome emotional eating, but there's a high probability that you've been going about it all wrong. You've been dealing with the symptom instead of going right to the root of what is causing you to binge-eat. Click To Tweet
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